My 22 month old daughter, Haley, was taking shade underneath the flap of the green recycling garbage bin and drinking a cold bottle of milk as she watched me attempt to pull up the last and most difficult weed of the afternoon. I pulled and pulled at the weed, but it would not come up. I started to grunt loudly as I pulled (uuuuuuhhhhhhhh.......). My grunting did not seem to help. The weed was fixed.
Then, from the corner of my ear, I heard my 22 month old daughter begin to grunt, mimicking my strains and stresses...(uuuuuuhhhhhhh). We grunted together over the intransigent weed. Finally, with a snap, the weed came out of the ground. Somehow, both of our grunts combined made the weed loosen it's grip on the ground. It would seem that two grunts are better than one.
The Philippian Church church shared in the troubles of Paul's ministry; "I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you have been concerned but you had no opportunity to show it...Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles." Phil. 4:10-14
Ministry, pastoral care, counseling, shepherding people can, in part, be described as "grunting with people." When someone is in grief because of the loss of a loved one, when a couple is in crisis in a marriage counseling setting, when a staff member is struggling through a project, sometimes the most helpful thing we can do is to "grunt with them." By sharing in the pains of others, we often, miraculously, and by the power of the Holy Spirit, ease their ability to pull up the weeds of their lives.
All for Now,